About the Book

From a childhood overshadowed by chaos to a life shaped by secrets, survival, and the grip of addiction, It’s the First Drink That Gets You Drunk is the raw, unguarded story of a man who spent decades searching for himself—only to discover that the answers were buried in his past.

Born the youngest of seven in a turbulent, alcohol-ruled household, David grows up surrounded by instability, humiliation, and fear. Behind closed doors, he carries silent battles: anxiety he can’t name, sexuality he can’t express, and a longing for belonging that seems forever out of reach. As he steps into adulthood, he escapes home but not the emotional scars that follow.

From the vibrant streets of swinging 1960s London to unexpected encounters with celebrities, from financial triumphs to devastating losses, David’s life becomes a whirlwind of reinvention. Yet alcohol—learned early, relied on often—tightens its hold until it threatens everything he loves.

It isn’t until his late 50s, after failed treatments and painful relapses, that he reaches a turning point through the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous. Nineteen years sober, he now reflects with clarity, humility, and courage on the roads that nearly destroyed him—and the redemption that finally brought peace.